The basketball talk lasted long than I had wanted it to; anyone who considers Blake Griffin to be the new Hakeem Olajuwon needs to watch ESPN Classic or something. As the basketball talk began to die down my associate asked me, "How are the ladies treating you?" I told him that girls were not treating me any different really. I also said that they weren't any that peaked my interest really, there was no one who possessed that unique balance of physical beauty and mental stimulation to truly make me interested.
My friend didn't believe me right away. He stated, " There are so many intelligent girls where you're at that I can't see that being the case." He was absolutely correct. I confessed that it wasn't that there weren't any girls that could interest me intellectually, but it was most of the women attracted to me were not my type physically.
The truth of the matter is that I am not attracted to big girls, and before anyone tries to stamp me with the shallow label let me say this : You can fall in love with a person's mind, but you can not make love to that person's mind. There must be some kind of mutual physical attraction.
He then asked me, " So you don't like thick girls either?" I answered his question with my own question, "Is there really a difference?" I never liked using the term thick to describe a woman's build because honestly it doesn't really describe anything. The term has been misused so much that a woman the size of the Goodyear blimp could claim she is thick. Where is the point where a woman is no longer thick and is on the big girl side? Do you know anyone who is denial about their "thickness?"
Urban Dictionary definition: A thick girl is a girl who is an above average size. However she is not fat. She is solid. One way to test is to slap her ass.........If it jiggles then shes more fat than thick . If it doesnt, you my friend have a thick girl :)
Thick or Fat?
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Funny post, yet interesting. Blake Griffin is nowhere near close to being like "The Dream." His all-around game still needs work. Now, about "thick" women, folks, both men and women, don't know or understand what is "thick." In my opinion, "thick" means not plus size, but shapely, voluptuous, even definition in figure. And your right; people don't know the difference. It doesn't matter much to me the size of the girl. Well, as long as she's pretty in the face lol.
ReplyDeleteWhen I see a woman that is voluptuous I don't even think to apply the term thick to her. I always think she has a nice ass or big breast etc. For me size can be a deal breaker. 1. I'm like 150lbs and 2. I don't like rolls or really big guts. Some guys can get past that. I can't really.
ReplyDeleteLmao. Too funny. I used to think the same thing like where do we draw the line? Everytime I think someone's on the big girl side I find a dude who just claims she's thick. But everyone has an oppinion. Thats just like how everyone has a different perception of what light skin and dark skin is.
ReplyDeletei say the 1st girl whom is very prett y by the way is more on the fat girl side. Yes it dos appear that her rear end is PHAT but her arms are also appear to have a lot of jiggle to them. Her stomach also appears to be a bit out there. the 2nd woman just has a fat butt(appears fake) i wouldnt classify her thick nor fat. her arms are rather skinny.
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You're exactly right; there is a certain level of physical attractiveness that has to be there. You can meet someone who at first you don't really feel but the more you get to know them, the more you're attracted to them, and then there are certain people where that just doesn't apply. It's not really shallow. Everyone is "shallow" in a certain way, because how are you gonna fall in love with someone you don't find attractive physically? People pass on other people all the time, for all kinds of reasons... We all have different tastes, I agree with you, I don't really want a girl who is on the bigger side. I also don't want a toothpick though. I like a female with a shape, I don't believe in the America's Top Model look, but I don't want someone who is overwhelming. That's just personal taste.
ReplyDelete@Book Girl number 2 does look rather fake. I posted that pic because I was wondering if a girl had a butt similar to that would she be considered thick or fat.
ReplyDelete@Charlie I don't believe in the top model look either. But at the same time I don't like girls who have to much of anything. And yes there has to be that balance of personality and beauty
Hmm... This is a tough one. I mean, thick and fat kinda are interchangeable if you think about it. I like the Urban Dictionary definition, but I feel like in the end big is big, you either like it or you don't.
ReplyDeleteLike the others said, in the end, you gotta have that physical attraction. For example, I like em in many sizes, but if you look like you haven't eaten a meal in months or like you just ate a cow, I can't help but not be attracted... works for some, but not me.